Aperture: Recovering Highlights Is Tricky

I've been playing with all the options on the 30D, and today tried RAW+JPEG to see if it is useful. I didn't like the images it produced, but something interesting did come of it: an exercise in highlight recovery.

The whales were having a tea party on the deck and to record the event I shot one frame of RAW+JPEG. I imported the images and accessed the JPEG sister by control-clicking on an image and selecting New Version from Master JPEG:
rawandjpeg
Here is a part of the JPEG version:
whalefinjpg
It's not sharp and I don't like the colors. But I can see detail in the white fin on the left. Now here is the RAW as processed by Aperture:
whalefin1
Sharper and nicer, but the fin is blow out. The blown out pixels are on the right of the histogram:
whalefin3
The JPEG version doesn't have this, so I know it's not inherent in the image:
whalefin4
How do I get the fin back? And why did Aperture do this to me?

First I turn the exposure way down. That brings the highlights back, but it kills the rest of the image. So I move the brightness and saturation up to compensate and then twiddle with the contrast to get a reasonable image with some loss of shadow detail:whalefin5
Finally I get the shadows back with the Highlights and Shadows control:
whalefin6
And my final result is pretty pleasing:
whalefin2
The bucket is much better and the yellow color can be seen reflecting in other objects. The fin is how I want it, but the rest of the whale is visible too. The histogram looks entirely different now I have finished:
whalefin7
I wonder why this is so hard to do? Did I just use the wrong technique, or is there something missing from Aperture here?
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